Book giveaway 2015

This year’s Best Books list is a bit different. Because I wanted to better understand what life is like for men and women who are not white, I intentionally sought out authors who would teach and challenge me. I succeeded. Many of these books made me weep and feel deeply uncomfortable. As I see it, that’s not a bad thing. Perhaps if more of us were willing to be “comfortable being uncomfortable” (Mellody Hobson’s quote from her TED talk), we might actually make some progress with the issues that divide us. I am intentionally not listing books written by white men, not because I didn’t read any good ones but because I think too many Best Book lists lean toward white male authors. (Sorry to those of you who fit that category who wrote awesome books this year!)

Screen Shot 2015-12-17 at 8.04.29 PM

#1. The book that most impacted me was Professor Soong-Chan Rah’s Prophetic Lament: A Call for Justice in Troubled Times. A must read for anyone who leads in the church, esp. if you are a white male. Truly prophetic. Utterly challenging. Desperately needed. Prepare to wince as you read.

“For American evangelicals riding the fumes of a previous generation’s assumptions, a triumphalistic theology of celebrations and privilege rooted in a praise only narrative is perpetuated by the absence of lament and the underlying narrative of suffering that informs lament.”

#2. Bryan Stevenson, Just Mercy. This book should be read by every American high school student, every law enforcement officer, and every judge. Stevenson is a great story teller and writes with conviction and passion. Though I had some awareness of how unjust our justice system is, I really had no clue. I cried all the way through this book and had to put it down multiple times. Please prioritize reading this book, if for no other reason, to pray for Bryan and his organization and for those who have been unfairly imprisoned.

#3. Ta-Nehisi Coates, Between the World and Me. In a word, this book is excoriating. Not because he blames, but because he simply tells the truth. Reading Coates’ highly acclaimed work made me wonder just how many African American authors feel the need to soften their words so as to not offend or alienate white readers. Of course I have no idea if this is true, but it did not seem like Coates worried about that. And I am grateful. His work is raw, passionate, an oh so difficult to read as a Caucasian. But it’s important for anyone, particularly if you harbor doubts that racism still exists.

#4. Carolyn Custis James, Malestrom. In her new book, Carolyn Custis James demonstrates why she is one of the most compelling theologians of the twenty-first century. With the authority and unction of a true prophet, she not only identifies one of the major issues of our day—a fallen idea of maleness—but offers grounded insight for how this curse can be undone. (For more, please read my review over at Junia Project.) This was by no means a hard read. James also had me weeping, but this time for joy. If even 10% of Christian males read this book and took her words to heart, the face of evangelical Christianity would change for the better. It’s that compelling.

#5. Atul Gawande, Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End. I read this book out of necessity when my father was in his last days. It’s equal parts horrifying, depressing, and insightful. It chronicles our tendency to institutionalize the elderly and unknowingly strip away their dignity in the process. Gawande thinks we can do better and after helping my father spend his last days at home with hospice, I agree. 

#6. Tara M. Owens, Embracing the Body: Finding God in Our Flesh and Bones. As a kinesthetic woman who has been part of Protestant churches (read non-kinesthetic and mostly non-tactile) for more than 30 years, I found myself sighing with relief as I read Owens’ book. We can no more leave behind the reality that we are body people than we can hold our breath for the length of the service. And yet, most church services and sermons either deny or downplay the importance of our flesh and blood, often casting it as inherently sinful and problematic (a la Augustine’s gnosticism?). Owens writes with tenderness and care, inviting us to consider anew how our bodies can reveal God and how God can speak to us through our bodies. Excellent read, grounded in Scripture.

#7. Micha Boyett, Found: A Story of Questions, Grace, & Everyday Prayer. What does it look like to reconfigure our faith when the situations of life change and shift? Can we sense God holding onto us even when we feel like we free falling? I deeply appreciated Boyett’s honesty and refusal to settle for easy answers. Found will inspire, encourage, and give you permission to admit that sometimes you feel lost too. (This was published in 2014 but I didn’t get to it until this year.)

#8. Patricia Raybon and Alana Raybon, Undivided. Undivided helped me to better understand why opposing ideologies routinely burrow in and refuse to engage with those who oppose their perspectives. I appreciate Patricia and Alana’s (mother and daughter) willingness to share the raw feelings, frustrations, and disappointments with their process of trying to find common ground.

I want to give away four gifts to four lucky readers: two books, one adult coloring book, and five of my original photo cards. To enter, leave a comment below, share this post (on Twitter or Facebook) and tag me, or subscribe to my site. The books include: David Platt’s A Compassionate Call to Counter Culture, Aubrey Sampson’s Overcomer (read my review of this wonderful book here), and Margaret’s Feinberg’s Coloring Book, Live Loved. Please let me know which book you would like in the comment section below. Each share or Tweet gets you another entry. One gift per household. 🙂

You can read more of my reviews at Goodreads. And next year this time, my first book will be available! More on this in the weeks to come.

I started this year with a month-long series featuring African American writers. You can read their words here and here. It’s my prayer that as a nation we move forward on owning the many ways that racism continues to impact far too many individuals. Please join me in praying, supporting our brothers and sisters, and working to change the broken system.

Peace be with you.

 

Subscribe to my monthly Newsletter!

Sign up for my monthly newsletter and get a free download on how to have constructive conflict. 

You have Successfully Subscribed!